S3X Education *smile*

  First of all, my apology if this post content some sensitive issues that the readers doesn’t like to read.  I just hope this can help young couple or married couple to be aware and being knowledgeable about SEX.  Not to say that I am SO experienced on this.  I just want to share what I read to the readers, so that we can learn if we come across this in future, perhaps to wake us up on what have been done before.

 

How may of us ever come across, heard, saw or experience a Premarital Sex?  Anywhere… I am not focusing on this “Premarital Sex” topic.

 

The main question here is; IS BAD SEX LIKE FOOD POISONING?

If you wouldn’t eat food that’s spoilt, why settle for sex that’s not good?  Learn how to change “bad” sex into “good” sex, and avoid feeling like you’re just had a bad meal of sexuality gone sour. 

 

Would you allow someone to give you spoilt food?  NO.  Then why settle for spoilt sex?  Sexuality and sensuality are both extremely positive expressions of love, communication and feeling.  Just as a word can be misinterpreted, so can a physical expression.

 

“Bad” sex is any sex that is energy draining which is simple sexual activity that leaves us unfulfilled.  Well that “unfulfilling” sex, and often, it can be related to what’s deemed as energy draining.  However, the two don’t always to hand-in-hand.  One can have fulfilling sex due to outside stressors or one partner not feeling well or distracted, but if it’s between two loving people, it’s hardly “bad” or energy draining sex.

 

Many people who claim they are sexual and who seek experiences with a myriad partners are often the emptiest people in the sexual energy department.  They’re using sex to fill a void, or to release a tension that they choose not to deal with or other levels.

Just as you wouldn’t take SPOILT and DISGUSTING FOOD into your body, why would you take ILL-GIVEN SEXUAL ENERGY into your spirit?

WHY?  Seeking Inner Peace??

What makes the man who’s a womaniser or the playboy type irritable when he can’t satiate his desire for sex, while the man ext to him-with far less “bedroom hours” clocked in – is more at peace?

 

What makes the woman who’s screaming for attention with sexy clothes ad heavy make-up miserable when she doesn’t observe man chasing after her, while the woman next to her – without make-up ad I a sweatshirt – feels sensual and sexually fulfilled?

 

These are people who are bound to sexuality as a need for inner peace.  The double-edged sword they can’t see is that sexuality for the sake of inner peace is never peaceful. 

 

Interpreting Intimacy

To raise your energy quotient, look deeper within.  When you feel that need no let off a little sexual steam, dig a little deeper ad try to find out what you hope to gain, or what you normally achieve by having sensual experience.

 

Harnessing Energy

So what does one do?  A huge part of raising your energy is to separate the times when you see yourself as sexual or in need of sensuality in your life.  This is not to say that sex or sensuality is negative.  However, it is a feeling, a desire, but not something that should be focus.  Sexual and sensual energy between two people should be uplifting, strengthening and comforting.  When you focus on your energy – not on giving it away or taking in prospective negative energy – you’re certainly doing yourself a great service.  And it ca be truly liberating!

 

***  end of sex edu. **

 

“Unprotected Mark!”