1 Corinthians 13:4-7,13

Love is patient,
True love is unconditional, that is, it does not depend on the attributes or lack thereof of the person loved, therefore, it is willing to give as much time necessary, and as much space as necessary for that person to grow.

Love is kind and is not jealous;
Love seeks to give others something of benefit for their welfare, and consequently, rejoices when they do benefit.

Love does not brag and is not arrogant,
To lift one’s self up in reference to others leaves no room for unconditional, graceful love.

Does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own,
To act inappropriately, shamefully (morally, especially in the area of sexual purity) is not in accordance with true love. Love never seeks it’s own gratificaiton but rather the interests of others.

Is not provoked,
Selfishness seeks to manipulate others by stimulating certain selfish emotions. Love will not do this to others, nor will it let it happen to itself.

Does not take into account a wrong suffered,
Forgivenss. Let it go. Bitterness is the acid. You are the container. Get rid of it or it will kill you.

does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth;
Love does not somehow gloss over things that are going to be hurtful. True love originates from the truth.

Bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
If love really is unconditional, it will hold any weight, face any doubt, persist through hopelessness, and last any trial

Love never fails…
If it did, would it be love?

But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the greatest of these is love.
Someday, faith will not be needed, for we will see God. Hope will not be needed, for when everything is fulfilled, there is no need for hope. But love, yes, to it there will be no end. If it did, it wouldn’t be love.

Thinking of the most solitary place I can imagine. The most isolated, lonely location I can possibly conjure up; a claustrophobic, dirty cell; the peephole in the door forever unused; and island eternally floating in the sea of darkness, the shadows hiding everything I can, and can’t see; a quiet, wind-whipped plain where no directions exist; a desert landscape, all sound muffled by the driving winds and buffeting sands, where half-seen shapes roam the horizons.

Imagine spending an eternity there. Terrifying thought indeed. Mull it over for a while. An existence where no beginning and no end, alone with my mind and nothing else. Right now, it’s a scary scenario. When you get to the afterlife, it won’t just be a scenario anymore.

I closed my eyes sitting in the dark.  I pull my legs up on my seat as I wrap my hands around them tight when my head helplessly falls on my knees.  I scream out loud letting go the pain I feels in my heart.  I can’t think well and my brain cells are not functioning at all… its hurting me bad.  I feel week and fell really bad..  until one little tiny hands come and call my name.   I then know there’s someone who needs me more than anything.

I thank you God for the love you gave me in my life.

Its over now..

A few second after that, I received a text from the same number saying “Who is this?”.  Doh!!  I wasn’t sure why do I get irritating that fast.  Might it because I was disturb form my busy hour with call from a stranger and now asking me who am I?   Or it’s just me xp.  I then rudely reply saying “You are the one who call me.  Who are you?!??” Damn! I took a deep breath after sending the text.   Not long after that, the person replied “You are the one who call me.  I am Willson, who are you?????”  Ooohh this fellow is getting annoyed too it seems.

Knowing that he want to introduce himself, I then try to be polite by saying “Oh I am sorry, I might have got the wrong number.  Please do not call or text this number in future? Thank you”

I was then having dinner after that when I come to think that I did call someone earlier.   Curious to know who, I then check my call out list.  Holly molly!!! It was that number.  I was like Doooohhhh!!!!  It happens to be my neighbor.  Aaahh nice xD.  I was supposed to send the fruits to them this evening but no one seems to hear me and the door was closed.   Screw me being rude, and no wonder I do feel guilty about it.  I come to think, who is Willson?  OMG I am being rude to the uncle which is my neighbor O.o.  I again go Dooohh! Now how am I supposed to bring this fruits to them?  ^______^

Anyway, I text the number again introducing myself and telling them I was bringing them fruits but no one were home.   I walk out of the door with the fruit container and a big relieved when I saw that Willson is the little boy, neighbor son who were calling and texting me earlier.  I laugh and apology and he smile.  I then walk back home in peace. xD

Moral:  Do not show your attitude for that will comes back to you.

When he got down he noticed two people in the front seats of the car but he didn’t pay any attention to it and took out the baby quickly and got up to take the baby to it’s mother. When he got up, he didn’t see the mother anywhere so he asked his wife where she had gone. She told him that the woman followed him back to the crashed car. When the husband went back to look for her, he noticed that clearly the couple in the front seats were dead, one of whom was unmistakeably the woman who had flagged them down.

Sources: http://msdapps.com/android/creepy-tales/

A mother love is unconditional.  I love you mom! *__*

I won’t mention name but here it is;

Annoying A (A foreigner)

I was at my work station when this “Annoying A” approach me.  This Annoying A has been the most irritating one (I place IT at the irritating position myself) so far as the moment I saw Annoying A, the kind of feeling of hating and super irritating just flows all over my blood.  I just feel like “sshhooowing” em away but I just can’t.  A few months back, annoying A came and was sitting in front of my head for almost 2 hours.   I was doing my job and this fellow was talking and talking every second of it.  I notice that the other colleagues who pass by my workstation is giving us a glance and some started to question this fellow “You are still here?”  I attended for more than half an hour until I start to wonder why this fellow is not going.  Until the very last minutes of it, I had to tell this to this “Hey, it is not so nice for you to sit here too long as I am here doing my job”.  Annoying A replied “Oh! Ok”.  It happens that my superior wasn’t around and it would be bad as I wasn’t suppose to chit-chat to this annoying A which is not related to an official matter.  The moment annoying A step off my office, I go phiew!

The issue here is that, I was just trying to be nice talking when people come to me and they want to talk.  But when things goes too far that there is no consideration on my side, it is just not right after all. 

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 This annoying A came again after few weeks.  Greetings me and sit strait on the chair right in front of me and say;

Annoying A: “Miss, I need your help”.

Me: “Yes, what can I do”.

Annoying A:  “I need your Identification Card and your pay slip copy, my  friend is getting a car and he need help as he don’t have any  friend who can help him on this.  He needs you to be his  guarantor” (please note that this fellow is a foreigner and he is not even consider a closed friend.)

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I was shock! O.o  What on earth is this?  Did I react too much?  LOL! Well what will you think and what will you do if you are in my situation?  You are not even a friend to this fellow and out of nowhere they appear and asking for your help which is something that is not too simple to think off.  Think about it.

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Me: “What?  (I laugh.. hoping that it was a joke).  Why do you want to come to me?  Don’t he have any other friend that he can ask for help?  Who is this?  Can you bring him over and I will talk to him? ”.

Annoying A: “He is my friend”.

Me: “Your friend?  He is a foreigner too?”

Annoying A: “Yes”.

Me:  “What make you think that I will agree to give you my details.  Think about it Annoying A.  I don’t even know your friend.  Why are you so stupid to come to me and ask for this kind of help?

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This annoying A then make a call and talk to this so called friend telling him that I didn’t agree and annoying A left.  Do I sound too much?  Yes I am and honestly, I can’t accept it at all.

Few days back annoying A come again and it was over my work hours and I was getting ready to be home.

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Annoying A:   “Hi, how are u”.

Me:  “Hi, what are you doing here at this time?  I am getting ready for home”.

Annoying A:   “Oh, can you drop me home?  I just miss the bus”.

Me: “Oh, ermm ok” (WTF!)

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I just feel so BLAH!  On our way on the road, this fellow ask me am I mad or angry.   I say no.  Come on!  The last thing that I remember of saying to this fellow is;  “Could you please just stop getting closer to me because I am not happy with this and I would appreciate if you do understand!” .  I just then drop this fellow at the side of the road and let this super annoying walk the way home.  Duuhhh!!  I am even annoyed just thinking of it.  Some people are just too much to handle!

I will come with the next post with a different annoying kind of people  ~_~.

I lay down on my belly with my bolster supporting my chest, writing down this piece of paper, trying to gather the moments I have gone through the year. I lost in it for a moment. I realised how hard life have come and I come to think that is this my destiny? Does life drives by our destiny or our own? Aahh, I am then happy; happy at least in my way. I always pray that God will always lead the way of the weak one for example me. I never forget to thank the people who have been there, and the one who always is with me all through the day. Having to know and to experience the best and the worse part of me and yet still are there standing beside me saying that I am everything to them. Life is wonderful! Bless the people who are so good at heart and bless those who may find me difficult.

Yeah today is Tuesday and this is the second week of the month. I have a few stuff to settle before leaving for Christmas Eve and be with the family member. I make myself a calendar, putting up all the important task and important due date to meet up and planning of the annual leave which needed to be cleared off for the year. Oh my! I am going really-really busy this month. At the same time, this stuff of going for some sort of training for 3 freaking days, I thought is just a waste of time. Looking at the topic we covered, the training actually can be done only for two days. It worries me for I know that i still have a lot more to take care at work. Yet again, it’s a lost for me not to attend considering the certificate and my year end performance appraisal might be affected too. Hell yeah wtf! O.o

Well, cross finger and let just trust that things will get through smoothly. I know that God always make a way.

Dear December, please be good to me.

The word of God;
“For I know the plans I have for you, says the LORD. They are plans for good not for disaster, to give you a future not a hope”
~Jeremiah 29:11

Barriers of communication are the hindrances or difficulties involved in the communication which distort the message from being properly understood by the receiver.   There are four types of Communication Barriers which is; Semantic Barriers, Organisation Barriers, Psychological Barriers, Other Barriers.

I personally experience a lot of difficulty in my communication at times.  I always keep this in mind that to effectively communicate, we must realise that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and I used this as a guide to my communication with others.  Other than that, the way of communicating will change depending on the group of people or individual to whom I engaged to in communication; with colleagues, with family, with friends, with the love one and with the people around me.  The level of sensitivity change too ^^.

I would like to discuss on the Communication Barriers as I mention earlier.

Semantic Barriers

Semantic barriers happen when the person has lack of common language.  This gives difficulty in trying to explain the exact message to the other person. Other than that is because of poor vocabulary and the used of jargons in the communication.  Poor grammar and punctuation and lack of clarity in the message.  I hate it ^^ (well.. not that hate that so bad), I just don’t really like it when I talk to someone and he/she come up with the used of jargons and assuming that I understand what he/she is talking about.  I often pass it when I come across the situation and come with my own research afterward

Organizational Barriers

This is referring more to the situation at the work place.  Its include the complexity in the organizational structure, status and positions, policies, rules & regulations, wrong choice of medium, communication overload or fears of superiors. This barrier does give a very strong impact to once life at works.  Sometimes it sucks badly when it comes to certain issues.  I am glad that I am surrounded by the wonderful people around me at my work place.  I may say that I am sitting at my comfort zone ^^.  Dang!!

Psychological Barriers

Psychological Barriers includes of once attitude and values, the difference in perceptions, past experiences, source incredibility, abstraction and resistance to change.  It happens every day and I am experiencing this everywhere.  I always try to put myself on someone else shoes when I come across this barriers.  I tried to be open minded and being receptive to change.  It won’t be easy as said, especially when we have to faced a person with their kind of attitudes.  They will become the difficulty here and sometimes can make us miserable.  On a extra note “Only If You Let Them”.  The only way is, I always change the way I react to them because I sure hell, I can’t change anyone attitude.  Well there will be times where I fail not to show my own attitude as well

Other Barriers

The other barriers will include the Culture Difference, Distance and Time, Technical Problem, Fear, Poor Communication Skills and Insufficient Adjustment Periods.  This barrier is one common barrier everyone experience in life.  Culture?? Distance??  Ahh, why is this two attracting my attention the most?  Because it does directly involved me personally in life.   Culture is unique!  And everyone have their own culture and they value it a lot.  Once just need to learn and understand how other people Culture is and it will be way easier when it comes to communication.

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As a conclusion of this, I would like to include a simple story of a husband and wife which is related to communication.  You might have heard of it somewhere. J

There’s one day when this married couple were having an argument on something. They were quarrelling really bad that they refuse to talk to each other. It was over the weekend and they were both home but not at all having any conversation after the argument.  Until the night they went off to bed, the husband remembered that he will have an important meeting the next morning at work.  He is used to it that his wife will usually wake him up in the morning especially when there’s any important things to do at work and he need to get up early.  The problem now is that, they were having an argument and they weren’t talking to each other all over the weekend.  He refused to talk to his wife and tell her about it so she decided to write up a notes and paste it on the side table nearby his wife saying;

Husband notes to wife..

He went off to bed and sleep.  The next morning he woke up, it was 8:30am and his wife is gone to work.  He disappointedly gets up and looks at the note he wrote last night. He saw there’s another note beside it saying;

Wife replies to husband..

He quietly sat and think… he should have communicate with his wife and this will never happen.

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Communications is really important in any situation in life.  When there’s problem, we communicate.  When there’s and issue or doubt, we communicate.  When we need more information, we communicate.

Anne Morrow Lindbergh mention in her quote saying;

“Good communication is as stimulating as black coffee and just as hard to sleep after”

I love that saying.

I was about to go off to bed… and I turn on the mp3 on my phone.   Music is the only best friend I have to cheer up the day.  I was listening to this song of Selena Gomez covered by Sami and didn’t know that I fall to sleep with my earphone.  The next day when I woke up, I feel some kind off ichy on my eyes.  Sighs.. all that I remember is, I become too emotional.

Bleh! am missing someone real bad.  ~_~

(((Love you like a love song ~ Sami)))

It’s been said and done
Every beautiful thought’s been already sung
And I guess right now here’s another one
So your melody will play on and on, with the best of ‘em
You are beautiful, like a dream come alive, incredible
A centerfold miracle, lyrical
You’ve saved my life again
And I want you to know baby

[Chorus]
I, I love you like a love song, baby
I, I love you like a love song, baby
I, I love you like a love song, baby

And I keep hitting re-peat-peat-peat-peat-peat-peat

I, I love you like a love song, baby
I, I love you like a love song, baby
I, I love you like a love song, baby

And I keep hitting re-peat-peat-peat-peat-peat-peat

[Verse 2]
Constantly, boy you played through my mind like a symphony
There’s no way to describe what you do to me
You just do to me, what you do
And it feels like I’ve been rescued
I’ve been set free
I am hypnotized by your destiny
You are magical, lyrical, beautiful
You are… And I want you to know baby

[Chorus]
I, I love you like a love song, baby
I, I love you like a love song, baby
I, I love you like a love song, baby

And I keep hitting re-peat-peat-peat-peat-peat-peat

I, I love you like a love song, baby
I, I love you like a love song, baby
I, I love you like a love song, baby

And I keep hitting re-peat-peat-peat-peat-peat-peat

[Bridge]
No one compares
You stand alone, to every record I own
Music to my heart that’s what you are
A song that goes on and on

[Chorus]
I, I love you like a love song, baby
I, I love you like a love song, baby
I, I love you like a love song, baby

And I keep hitting re-peat-peat-peat-peat-peat-peat

I, I love you like a love song, baby
I, I love you like a love song, baby
I, I love you like a love song, baby

I love you…like a love song…

~ Sources: KevinZahri ebook ~

The Indonesian series always catch my attention well.  The pretty Luna Maya is in Nada Cinta as well so do Randy Pangalila.  They are well known enough as one of the famous actor and actress from Indonesia.

This video contains the soundtrack for the series.

I love the melody.

Among all the soundtrack, this is my favourite!

Itulah tempias nya selalu menonton sinetron Indonesia .  Post tittle dalam bahasa Melayu, isi post pulak tiba tiba English

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