Used vs. Loved

While a man was polishing his new car, his 4
yr old son picked up stone and scratched lines on the side
of the car. In anger, the man took the child’s hand and
hit it many times; not realizing he was using a wrench. At
the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple
fractures.  When the child saw his father with painful
eyes he asked, ‘Dad when will my fingers grow back?’
The man was so hurt and speechless; he went back to his car
and kicked it a lot of times. Devastated by his own
actions……..sitting in front of that car he looked at the
scratches; the child had written ‘LOVE YOU DAD’.

The next day that man committed suicide. . .
Anger and Love have no limits; choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely life…..
Things are to be used and people are to be
loved, But the problem in today’s world is that,
People are used and things are loved…
During this year, let’s be careful to keep this thought in mind:
Things are to be used, but People are to be loved …
Be yourself……This is the only day we HAVE.

Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch
your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits they become character;
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

I’m glad a friend forwarded this to me as a reminder..

God bless you!

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You can’t tell that i cry.

These days are so dull… i can’t feel my own feet standing on the ground.   My mind is thinking hard.  Should i go back and start from the beginning or just moved on. 

Mom, i know i am not so young to cry this out…. but there are time when i need you here and feel your love.  I am still your little girl.. and this time around, life treat me bad.  I have been strong enough to live my life alone but i don’t know this thing make me so weak.  Why didn’t you tell me all this before.  It hurts me…. and  you are too far… you will never know why i cry this tears.

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Big Snake

Big Phyton found at Curtin area, near Senadin during the bush fire in Miri.   Scary huh! :O

Big Snake

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Note to the ladies : Stockholm Syndrome Man

Is your man holding you hostage?

It isn’t easy living you life with a Stockholm Syndrome Man. I read magazines a lot and some topics just caught my attention to stay for a while and read more on that particular page.  I am very interested to some articles that can help me in life and perhaps some experience shared that will open my mind to think more before making any final decision in life. 

Some of you might ask, what is a Stockholm Syndrome Man?  How to sport a Stockholm Syndrome Man?  (Source; Her World Magazines)

  • Give him the waitress test. Does he complain, torment and generally treat services staff like dirt?
  • What about his ex?  Does he tell stories about a mad, angry, stupid or ungrateful woman?
  • Does he give reassurances that you didn’t ask for?  For example, that he never gets drunk or would never actually hit a woman.
  • Is he proud of bad behavior?  For example, claiming to be “butt kicker” at work or doing “crazy” things like hanging outside a girl’s apartment all night.
  • What about his friends?  Stockholm Syndrome Men have only acquaintances or a handful of friend who are just like him.

With Stockholm Syndrome Man, there are always a treat of violence.  Some go as far as hitting their partners, others throw things or get into fights with other men.  The goal is to keep the woman on guard and therefore easily to controlled.  Ultimately, all Stockholm Syndrome Men becoem emotioanally abuse.

** General Information to the Ladies**

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Question: Would you tell your girlfriend if her partner was cheating on her?

Believed it or not, this is real dilemma.  While most of us believe and say we’d stand up for a sister and tell her at once if her boyfriend or husband was cheating on her.  If the situation becomes real, it’s not always that simple.  It’s never easy being the bearer of bad news.

 The real thing I discovered. 

 I once saw my friend boyfriend holding hands with another woman.  I called my friend immediately to tell her.  Although she was upset at first, she manages to work things out with him, and I ended up looking bad.  Since then, I told myself never to get involved again.

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Monday Blues…

I didn’t know that i hate work this much.  I don’t take breakfast, I woke up late (was at a friend house last night -drink 2 glasses of bacardi + wine.. well they force me too gggrrrrrrrrrr.. am so gonna do the same when they come to my house), feeling dizzy, I am in a sleepy mode,  I left my fucking phone at home,  bla bla bla bla… aarggh i wanna go home!!  I want my bed!!  O_O.

Well, work has to be done.

Am using mask in my office.. having cold and fever last week.  I was praying so hard *God, please.. i am not ready yet.  Please get the Swine Flue away from me* :D .  It was seriously bad especially on friday.  But i am getting better today. 

*** Silence mode*** –_-

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Haze in Miri!

Miri community is suffering from a bad flue and fever now as the haze is getting worse and worse.  Looking out of my office windows, i don’t feel like going out of my office.  I can’t barely see what is infront of me for 1km distance.  Using mask is useless!

The news on this is everywhere. Sarawak cities is surounded in haze!  According to the Malaysian Meteorological Services website, poor visibility levels were recorded in most parts of Sarawak.  Most areas recorded moderate readings while 11 locations registered normal visibility levels of above 10km.  The Department of Environment, in its website, said four towns in Sarawak recorded high readings — Samarahan (115), Miri (106) and Sibu (112) and Bintulu (114).

Attached with this post is a picture taken around my office area.   Source (friend).

Picture infront of the Admin Building
Picture infront of the Admin Building
The Lake Side

The Lake SideThe SOB and SOE Building- pic taken from the lake Evening view

 

Nearby the office area
Nearby the office area

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There are more worse than this
There are more worse than this

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The Soccer Field - beside the student accomodation

The Soccer Field - beside the student accomodationThe lake outside campus

The lake side again
The lake side again

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I missed home..

Speaking of Christmas holiday and such, i must say that the memory of having Christmas with my family is slipping away day by day.   10 to 15 years back, Christmas is one of the most precious moment that i am waiting for every year. 

I missed mom’s delicious cookies, I missed our traditional food (the wrapping rice, the tapioca leaves and a lot more), I missed the river (i love nature), I missed the waterfall that we used to visit every school holidays, I missed all the relatives, I missed grandma, I missed the long house, I missed seing the older dancing our traditional dance, I missed our traditional music (the sape’), I missed being around my siblings again, I missed playing fire crakers :p oo well haha, I missed my long lost friend from the same Kampong (village), oohhh it just that.. I missed a lot of things.

Staying away from mommy and daddy is not easy.  Living alone is hell lots more difficult and not everyone can do this.   I was away from home since i was 12 years old (its so damn taugh).  Taking care of myself, doing everyting on my own, make my own decision.. except the money.. mommy and daddy help me with that.  :D  

I can’t wait for Christmas holiday.  If i can make it going back to mom and dad this year.. i would never miss a single moment with them.  I must take a picture around the place…. which i am sure.. will be interesting for everyone to know.

I missed home…..

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The post!

Looking back at my older post,  i have been missed a lot of things.  Its been one year.  Maybe i just go on with the current issue or maybe took some of the previous issues and just slide it in one or two upcoming post :)

There is a huge gab there for sure.. This page has been so dead.  So i am goin to give it live back.

I lost contact with my blogroll… i really got to go back to Blog Malaysia where i can meet them back.  I hope there are still there :)

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Ladies and Gentleman! Which one do you prefer?

Nice collection for everyone to choose !  Spend a few minutes for shopping folks.  Life is always good to have some fun.

Simple but comfortable!

Simple but comfortable!

Pic. 1:  Simple but this is comfortable.  Materials are suitable for room with air-conditioner.

Nice

Nice

 Pic. 2:  This is advice for outdoor activities.

Urrmm okay.. this is Wonderful!

Urrmm okay.. this is Wonderful!

 Pic. 3:  Cloth suitable for outdoor and indoor! :)

Very Casual!

Very Casual!

 Pic. 4:  Casual wear

A lil bit too casual.. hehehe

A lil bit too casual.. hehehe

 Pic. 5:  Another casual wear!

Good and warm!

Good and warm!

 Pic. 6:  A jacket to keep you warm!

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Pic. 7:  The one that everyone always wanted!

This is just Awesome!

This is just Awesome!

 Pic. 8:  Awesome choose! 

Fantastic!

Fantastic!Pic 9: The fantastic one! Always looks good!The most talking about!

 Pic 10: Everyone always look for :)

ok.. hawtttt!

ok.. hawtttt!

 Pic 11:  Looking hawwwttt all the time!

Last but not least... hhmm..

Last but not least... hhmm..

Pic 12:  Sit back and relax!  Its all great!

THE CLOTH ARE AVAILABLE AT EVERY SHOPPING MALL WITH DISCOUNT! 

BE FAST! 

Reservation cannot be made. 

Cheers everyone!  The crazy blogger is back :D

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